I’m here. You’re not alone.
He blew warm air into her hair. That was his yes. a rider needs no pants work
Borrow or use a very smooth leather saddle (older Stubben or Crosby models work well). Ride in nylon running tights or smooth denim. At the posting trot, focus on letting your leg swing forward and back from the hip, not gripping. The moment you feel friction, check: Are you clenching your knee? Open it. Are you clamping your calf? Wiggle your toes. The goal is to hear a faint "swish" of fabric over leather with every stride—proof of following motion. I’m here